Song Tabs

 "The Pain Of Loving You" is a classic country ballad known for its heartfelt lyrics and gentle, flowing melody. Patty Loveless’ version highlights soulful vocals and traditional country guitar, which translates well to solo acoustic playing.

Chords

The song uses three basic open chords:
A major, D major, and E major.
These are beginner-friendly chords and are commonly used in country music.

Strumming Pattern

A simple country strumming pattern works well:
Down-down-up-up-down-up
Try to emphasize the bass note on the first downstroke for a more authentic sound.

Chord Transitions

• Practice moving smoothly between A, D, and E.
• Most transitions are between A and E, or A and D. Work on switching from A to E and back, as this happens frequently.
• Keep your fingers close to the fretboard to make changes quicker and cleaner.

Techniques & Tips

• Begin with a slow tempo, focusing on clean chord changes and steady rhythm.
• If you struggle with the E to A transition, try practicing it repeatedly outside the song.
• For the instrumental section, play one measure of each chord: D, A, E, A.
• Count in fours for each chord in the intro and outro.

With practice, this song is a great way to build confidence in basic chords and strumming.
Keep your rhythm steady and enjoy the emotional feel of the music!